CLAIRE HOLT

Zvijezda 'Vampirskih dnevnika' s fanovima na Instagramu podijelila svoju bol

Claire Holt
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06.03.2018.
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Claire je čekala dijete sa zaručnikom Andrewom Joblonom, a fotografiju je objavila kako bi ohrabrila druge da govore o takvim stvarima, kako bi lakše prebrodili bol.

Australska glumica Claire Holt (29), našim gledateljima najpoznatija po ulozi Rebecce u seriji "Vampirski dnevnici" podijelila je na Instagramu tužnu vijest. Glumica je objavila fotografiju iz bolknice, te napisala kako je imala spontani pobačaj.

Claire je čekala dijete sa zaručnikom Andrewom Joblonom, a fotografiju je objavila kako bi ohrabrila druge da govore o takvim stvarima, kako bi lakše prebrodili bol.

- Ovu sam fotografiju napravila prije 10 dana dok sam čekala operaciju nakon što je srce moje bebe prestalo kucati. Poslala sam je zaručniku koji je bio u čekaonici, kako bih mu kazala da sam u redu. Nisam bila u redu - napisala je Claire pokraj fotografije na kojoj je u bolničkoj odjeći s podignutim palcem.

 

I took this photo 10 days ago, as I waited for surgery after my sweet little baby lost its heartbeat. I sent it to my fiancé in the waiting room to show him that I was ok. I wasn’t. I’ve never felt more broken in my life. I debated sharing this so soon and I’m still frightened about making such a private struggle public, but I’m doing it anyway because it's important. After my D & C, I spent hours on the internet searching for women who had been through it. I was desperate to find someone, anyone, who could relate to what I was feeling. Someone to tell me that the depression and hopelessness were normal. That it wasn’t my fault. That I wasn’t broken forever. I found a community of women who shared my exact experience. Who were open and vulnerable about miscarriage, something that isn’t often or openly discussed. It breaks my heart to think that losing a baby feels like something we have to keep to ourselves. Why is it any different than the death of a loved one? How is it any less meaningful? Here is what I have learned as I begin to crawl out of the dark hole: support is everything. I could not have survived this without the unconditional love of my partner. Despite his pain, he was my rock and my safety net. I will never know how to thank him. I also found that opening up to people is crucial. As soon as I told my story, almost everyone I spoke to told me theirs - their own, their wife’s, their sister’s. So many people go through it and understand the breadth of pain, yet so few people talk about it. Finally, I want to share a blog post that resonated with every part of me. You can find the link in my bio, @leandramcohen of @manrepeller articulates the emotional rollercoaster with an eloquence that I could never possess. To anyone out there who has been through a miscarriage, I understand you. I share every bit of your pain and you are not alone. Please be kind to yourself and I hope that you will be comfortable sharing your story too.

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Glumica je dodala kako se nikad nije osjećala tako loše i da ju je bilo strah objaviti javno takvu privatnu stvar, no jednostavno je morala.

 

Happy Birthday @ajoblon! You’re everything to me 💕

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- Našla sam udrugu žena koje dijele isto iskustvo. Zašto bi pobačaj trebao biti tabu tema? Zbog čega bi to trebalo biti drukčije od smrti voljene osobe - zapitala se Claire i još jednom dodala kako je bito otvoriti se ljudima, a ne držati bol u sebi.

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